40 Questions

Because I'm feeling like a hopeless romantic today Here are 40 important relationship questions you should ask yourself ladies. If you're  not sure about some of these questions...figure out the answers..If you answer YES to a majority..you're in a good place. If NO...you need to get to know him more before u proceed
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  • Have you ever heard him talk about his parents? If so, is he respectful?
  • Would he rather TALK to you than text?
  • Is he respectful toward you around his friends?
  • Would you be okay with him spending time with your dad (or the fatherly figure in your life) when you aren’t around?
  • Would you be okay allowing him to see when your makeup/hair is not done?
  • Does he have a father/mentor figure whom he seeks to model himself after?
  • Does he give you more non-physical compliments than physical compliments?
  • Does he have a job to support himself?
  • Does he handle his money well?
  • Do you have the same beliefs when it comes what matters to you most?
  • Has he met your parents?
  • Have you talked about short term goals?
  • Do your short term goals align?
  • Have you talked about long term goals?
  • Do your long term goals align?
  • Does he stop when you say “stop?”
  • Does he respect your body?
  • Have you had dialogue about what you believe and why?
  • Do you know anything about his past relationships?
  • Does he know anything about your past relationships?
  • Is his main reasons for being attracted to you non-physical?
  • Are your main reasons for being attracted to him non-physical?
  • Do the people you trust the most approve of him?
  • Do the people he trusts the most approve of you?
  • Is he involved in his local church, or charity, missions, or has a desire to help others?
  • Has he ever offered to help with a project or something you were working on or stressed about?
  • Does he try his best to stay clear of dangerous activities (texting/drinking and driving, speeding, other illegal activities)?
  • Is he willing to admit when he is wrong?
  • Is he a person of integrity (not willing to cheat, steal, or lie even if no one is looking)?
  • Is he sensitive towards people with disabilities, people who are elderly, etc.?
  • Do you have the same beliefs when it comes to children?
  • Do you feel comfortable when he’s around the people you are closest to?
  • Does he show an interest in the things you are interested in?
  • Have you ever seen him help someone?
  • Do you feel safe around him?
  • Do you feel that he would protect you in a time of need?
  • Do you feel that he will stand up for you?
  • Do you feel good about standing up for him?
  • Do you see him as someone you could spend the rest of your life (and maybe even have children) with?
  • Does he love God more than he loves anyone else?

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